Again those points is what I PERSONALLY think.. so guys .. No offense and No hard Feelings
1- They say we don’t listen .. well .. we listen to everything that comes out of thei mouth but we just act dumb.. Men on the other hand LISTEN .. but they listen to the things they want to hear and leave the rest of the conversation out !
2- Guy- Hunny where do you want to go?
Girl – It’s up to you Guy..
Guy- How about this restaurant no I don’t feel like Japanese today .. what about Lebanese Girl.. no .. what about Italian? Girl- MMM I Don’t know.. Guy- Then where the hell do you want to go just tell me !
Now in this situation the girl Wants one simple thing .. for you to change your destination of going home and surprise her yourself with a perfect dinner ! Trust me .. she will not care where you are and what your having for dinner .. it’s the thought that counts !
3- PLEASE don’t get her things that you will love doing for special occasions like a 3D TV for valentines day or some sort of gadget that you will be borrowing for the rest of the time .. GET HER A NICE pair of shoes .. give the girl the perfect shoes and she can conquer the world ! yes Marylin Monroe said that and it’s true may she rest in peace ! ( Again I’m talking about most , some do prefer gadgets .. I’m not in that Genre )
* Important point .. even if they are expensive .. it’s once in a year occasion .. can’t afford to get something for the birthday, anniversary or whatever .. take her out get her a flower , do something ! But don’t completely forget her it’s rude and disrespectful even if she doesn’t show it !
4- Act like your Jealous over her and that you care , so she can stop talking about guys and bothering you .. if you keep acting Cold .. she will keep doing it ! But of course limit the jealousy to an extent that no one gets hurt !
5- If you feel that your relationship is in trouble .. give her an 24 hours , apology policy .. you just can’t get mad at each other for more than 24 hours .. pretend like nothing happened, move on .. if you feel nothing is working .. take a breath to relax, travel for a couple of days .. or rent a shailah so you can just relax and chill and forget everything that happened instead of walking away and chilling at your dewaniya, gahwa, or shailah but with your friends , trust me it’s healthy for you and your life will be so much easier! Don’t let her misunderstand you.
6- Don’t spend all the day working , studying .. going out with friends or whatever , Give her .. ” her time” even though it’s once or twice a week , I swear she will leave you alone .. and not make you feel like a prisoner. Balance it out !
7- Don’t spend all day on your phone or laptop when your with her .. watch a movie or something eat pop corn .. or ice cream .. but eat it together, don’t be sitting at your office and she ‘s sitting on the couch but watch the movie .. trust me she’s not watching the movie .. she’s watching your bad habits !
8- Make her feeel she’s your number one priority .. not your care .. sometimes MEN treat cars like woman , they take care of them , get them all the customized nice stuff ..and Woman don’t like that … keep doing it .. but show her that you want her to sit on a one good looking car !
9- share your interests together , make her enjoy what you like to do .. and she should do the same .. I swear if you just do that you will automatically be shopping with her instead of just waiting for her at the store outside cause your not interested ! she might act find .. but she does get hurt when she see’s other guys walking with their wives and shopping together !
10- Don’t let small issues get the best of you , don’t walk away , talk about your problems , compromise , and make the family loves you ..go to family gatherings even if it’s once in a while , even though you hate dealing with the family drama , pretend just the sake of her, then she will rather be with you than her family , TRUST ME
This is how I see it , Ladies I’m sure some of you agree , Men .. please DON’T KILL ME